I ran a workshop recently for teenage girls exploring the beauty of God’s design in creating men and women differently, and how we can be a gift to each other. I wanted them to know that authentic masculinity is not the same as the immature boys who humiliate and objectify them, and to lead them to a place where they were able to see (and desired to treat) the men around them as their brothers in Christ.
As I prayed about it, I remembered the LifeTeen post several months ago in which Catholic guys explained what they really found beautiful in women. This post reassured me not only that I am beautiful because that’s how I was created, but also that there are men who see that. There are men who are looking at my heart rather than my figure, who seek God and holiness above all else and who are passionate about upholding my dignity, and that those are the kind of men who deserve my heart.
I so wanted the girls I met in ministry to come to the same revelation, so I decided to recreate the concept from the point of view of people I know and can vouch for. I asked some of the very best men I know to complete the sentence: ‘You’re beautiful when…’
The result blew me away. Brothers, I am so incredibly blessed to know you! Thank you for restoring my hope.
Sisters, as you read each line, allow the truth that YOU are beautiful to sink deeper and deeper in your heart.
You’re beautiful when you find a reason to smile in even the smallest things.
You’re beautiful when you show those close to you how much you love them.
You’re beautiful when you treat everyone with compassion and respect, and always have time to do something that will make someone’s day.
You’re beautiful when you build people up.
You’re beautiful when you share what you truly find rewarding.
You’re beautiful when you prefer to spend more time with Jesus than anything else, even more than with me!
You’re beautiful when you don't conform to what the world has to offer.
You’re beautiful when you choose the way of God and not the way of the world.
You’re beautiful when I see the way you love Jesus and it makes me want to love Him more!
You're beautiful when you accept a compliment gracefully.
You’re beautiful when you accept and are aware of the truth and power of your beauty.
You’re beautiful when you put all your trust in Jesus.
You’re beautiful when you desire to be the best you can be.
You’re beautiful when you recognise your dignity.
You’re beautiful when you detach yourself from what the world wants you to be and you realise the beauty of who you truly already are.
You’re beautiful when you love the person God made you to be, and don’t want to be someone else.
You’re beautiful when you worship God freely.
You’re beautiful when you are brave in your honesty.
You're beautiful when you look at me right in the eye, not because you're trying to seduce me, but because you are genuinely interested in what I have to say.
You’re beautiful when you challenge and call the best out of the men around you.
You’re beautiful when you smile and laugh in the face of trials and difficulties.
You’re beautiful when you step out in faith and trust despite not knowing the outcome.
You’re beautiful when the world can see Christ in you.
You’re beautiful when you believe, even just for one second, that you are a work of art.
You’re beautiful because you’re made in the image and likeness of Beauty itself.
You don't know!! YOU DONT KNOW YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL!!
But you are beautiful… always… end of!
You’re already beautiful, and you’re already precious. Don’t change that!
You’re beautiful because it doesn’t matter what I think, only what the Creator thinks.