I have a confession to make. As the
Catholic stereotypes go, I’m a bit of a ToB nerd. To those that know me well
this, I’m sure, comes as no surprise. I’m far from being an expert, but what I
do know is that I weirdly love spending hours on end devouring page after page
on it.
The first thing you think of when you
hear the phrase ‘theology of the body’ is sex, right? So… what if I told you
the reason I love ToB has absolutely nothing to do with sex?!
The theology of the body is something which
is conceptually all too often confined to the bedroom, but which actually
applies to every aspect of our lives!
For example, I recently read about its implications for our work lives and the
fact that fewer careers nowadays involve the fruits of physical labour.
Thinking about this, I realised that it was true – I feel most alive and in
tune with God when I’ve been to the gym or, better still, out for a run in the
open air, not when I’m watching TV or sitting at my desk writing an essay. That’s
because God created us body, mind and
soul, and so when we’re not
exercising all three in harmony we lack fulfilment.
What’s more, it shows that men and women
are fundamentally different but that’s deliberate, and so as women we shouldn’t
be extending our quest for equality to the point where we’re fighting to be men! I absolutely love being able to
give out the Eucharist – the ineffable privilege of physically holding the body
and blood of my Lord, and being able to share that with my brothers and sisters
in Christ. But one of the most amazing things about it is that in the same
sacred act, men and women can represent entirely different things.
As a female, being a Eucharistic
Minister means exercising my feminine receptivity by embracing the gift of Jesus in my own two hands, and serving others
by way of offering them the same opportunity. Yet when I see men step up to the
altar to give out communion, I see them ‘stepping up’ in other ways too. I see
them humbling themselves in order to provide for the congregation as they
provide for their families. One action. Two equally beautiful symbolisations.
And so the real reason I love ToB…
After years of being afflicted with a
deep hatred of my body – which I know
the majority of women will identify with – it was so refreshing to discover
that it’s possible to stand against that in the name of Jesus! God created us
exactly how we are, and he ‘was pleased with what He
saw’ (Genesis 1:12). He looks at us and He doesn’t just think ‘hmm, I
did an alright job’, He is actively pleased!
We define ourselves by earthly standards and so are faced with nothing but
flaws, but God’s standards aren’t earthly standards. By God’s standards we are perfect.
‘God created man in
His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.’ (Genesis
1:27). That was no mistake! Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman. Sometimes we
resent the very things which make us feminine.
But, beautiful women, YOUR
FEMININITY WAS NOT A MISTAKE!
Once we have the gift of this knowledge we can begin to
fight back against the enemy, who truly hates
what God has made and so wants to make us feel the same way. It is this
knowledge that will allow us to see the beauty of God’s creation in our own
flesh, understand that our bodies have as much purpose as our minds and our
souls, and live out that purpose in all three aspects of our being.
So from today, I encourage you to start
each day by looking in the mirror and reminding yourself that you are ‘fearfully and wonderfully made!’, and before long,
the belief will set in.
What a beautiful post!! This makes me want to delve deeper into TOB cause I have barely even scratched the surface.
ReplyDeleteClaire - I'd definitely recommend you read 'These Beautiful Bones' by Emily Stimpson. Amazing take on the wider implications of ToB :)
DeleteHaving read this I'm curious about how it seems to point to complementarianism - would you agree with that viewpoint and if so, how does that match with a blog that wants to empower women?
ReplyDeleteI think it matches perfectly! The aim of the blog is to empower women to be themselves in the way they were created to be rather than conforming to expectations put upon them by the modern world, not by any means to promote radical feminism. The Wikipedia entry on complementarianism actually contains a section on 'Difference Feminism', which is defined as 'a philosophy that stresses that men and women are ontologically different versions of the human being'. Man and woman in their human form do complement each other physically, spiritually and emotionally, but this doesn't have to mean adhering to strict gender roles.
DeleteDoes that answer your question? :)